Misunderstandings and Disagreements in Posts

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Hey Everyone,

Something I have noticed in other forums that I would like to prevent on this forum is the hostility that can develop between members because of misunderstandings and disagreements.

In posts, misunderstandings can be very common because the text carries no personality to show neutrality or friendliness. Make sure to take this into consideration when reading posts that may appear as hostile before being offended.

Originally Posted by The Open Handbook by Ann Raimes

Be careful about what you say and how you say it. Sarcasm and attempts at humor can misfire. Criticism can hurt. In addition, an e-mail message cannot communicate body language. Your reader cannot see a twinkle in your eye or a warm smile. Sometimes a writer fires off a message full of anger and name-calling; such a message is called a flame. Avoid flaming.

In regards to disagreements: There will be disagreements on the forum because varying degrees of opinion and personal experience are involved. However, disagreements should be based on facts, supported with whatever evidence possible, and not involve attacks on members. Remember, everyone is after the same goal in a disagreement: getting the most beneficial and factual information. alb_tex has addressed this issue very well in one of his posts:

Originally Posted by alb_tex

I encourage debating different issues and opinions. However, personal attacks and swearing don't need to be a part of this community. We are here to promote responsibility and education. If two sides cannot agree on a subject, no problem. Just keep a respectful tone and make the best argument possible.

Thanks for helping create an excellent community and resource for quality information.

All the best,
John